natural bottom?

Ha. Yeah right.

Some guy's individual anatomy accommodates anal action like a natural champ. Little or no practice or preparation.

But others, like me, have to prepare with a handy dildo... gently... slowly... keeping horny. I LOVE to bottom. If I'm properly prepared and my partner is considerate, it's heavenly. A little slow-mo at the beginning, then we can go to town!

Lately the routine is 10 - 20 minutes first in front of the mirror on my own. I get naked, lube up, and insert the dildo over several minutes. All the while stroking my cock gently to maintain arousal and pleasure. Altering positions and views heightens my experience. I take the dildo in and out a couple times and clean it thoroughly, lubing up after each time.

Then I can walk into the bedroom and sit on the waiting hard cock nearly instantly. If its a few minutes of foreplay, it's all still good too. I love discovering new options and worlds!

pulse of life

There are many things I love to do to feel the pulse of life.

- Hold a throbbing cock and bring it to ejaculation.
- Hear a vocal orgasm escape his breath.
- Take someone's pulse - under their wrist. (I work in healthcare.)

- Run with someone and hearing their heavy breathing along with mine.
- Feeling my or his rhythms during sex.
- Sing with others.

- Eat a warm meal with my people.
- Have a passionate persuasive conversation.
- Spoon and cuddle.

- Coo with a baby.
- Cry without restraint in another's arms.
- Look into another's eyes while both of you weep.

- Ride a crowded bus or train. 
- Yoga poses where I grab my ankles, turn inward, or am close to the ground.

Alot of these things send chills up my spine.
Time stands still.
I am transported.
And I feel like I am close to or with the pulse of life.