ass

Not much is taught to us about our ass. Many of us gay men - and straight men - use our ass for an interesting array of activities - or not.

I wish there was more know-how, conversation, and thus skill around this.

I'm going to do my usual thing and push boundaries a bit, in a hopefully stay-a-little-bit-classy sort of way. Here's a few images that convey some of the variety of energies and activities:

a horny guy fingers himself

Some guys feel more pleasure, others more pain. Some of us learn techniques that increase the possibilities for pleasurable sex. Part of it has to do with simple anatomy. One has to:

• get past the rectal sphincter muscles - allowing them to relax,
• get past inner bends (of varying lengths in varying men),
• conform the flexibility of the rectum/intestines with the flexibility of the erect penis,
• not to mention timing for cleanliness (depending on tolerances)

Fortunately there's also lube, dildos, toys, and clipped nails (lol).

 

1466 inspection of male urethra

Ultimately I think most of us guys that have sex with men look for ways to increase the pleasure and diminish the pain. A little gentleness and perseverance can sure pay off!